Red Light/Green Light Selecting the Right Mate
Choosing the wrong mate can be the most devasting, destructing and damaging element to your growth. It can shake your entire world, shatter your entire being! Settling for second best brought me five years of an abusive marriage, a horrible separation for another two years, and finally my blissful divorce. Do you honestly want to experience such a distressing and overwhelming road?
Be cautious of the people you permit into your life. In choosing a mate, remember both parties have to be on the same page of life. If you are not, it is going to jeopardize your growth. This is an plain and simple as day. If your mate cannot support what you are doing and where you wish to go, he is not the one for you! Do I need to say more about this issue?
Never, ever sleep with someone who doesn't support your career. This is literally sleeping with the enemy. The enemy always comes with plans to destroy, tear down and devastate. Don't let anyone destroy what you have built or what you are building. My husband and I were total opposites.
He never thought my plans would amount to anything. He was the one holding me back. Do you want to go through life sleeping with someone who doesn't believe in what you are doing? Eventually you are going to get fed up and say, "Enough is enough", especially when you see the outside world is showing more appreciation than the people right in your bed. I say to give up! Why prolong a dead situation?
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Kathy Elliott is a powerful motivational speaker that focuses on changing lives. Creator of Women’s Motivational Services in New York which was founded in 2008 designed to help women find their purpose in life. She is author of several motivational books “Marriage Separation Divorce Regaining the Light”, “Success – Handbook for Teens/Young Adults, “Never, ever give up-13 Successful Principles to achieving your Dreams” ,“Domestic Violence Awareness-Real Life Stories and Be Awesome – Uncover Yourself.
She is a domestic violence awareness activist and speaker at domestic violence shelters monthly and hold a yearly fundraiser event. Kathy says “Life is a hell of a teacher and no matter what you are faced with you can never, ever give up.”