It frustrates me that people sit back and watch their sons and family abuse women. This is one of the norms in cultures that I really hate. I hate that women are treated like second class citizens and force at the back of the line of their families. The husbands don't respect the mother then the children grow up disrespecting their mother.
Male children that are raise in household where women are treated like trash grow up to treat their women like trash and at the same time they abuse their girlfriends and wives because that's all they know. You can't blame them for their bad behavior when that's all they know. They don't know any better.
Somehow I believe that when a child becomes a man he actually grows into his own man making his own decisions.As a man you will be held responsible for your actions despite past childhood surroundings and influences. I do understand that your surroundings shapes you and mold you but I also believe that a man conscience will lead him to know what is wrong from right despite culture, background, ethnicity and race.
It concerns me that time has change where women have fought for their place in society and around the world and men still want to beat them and treat like trash. Well, we are not going to tolerate it any longer because women bring life into this world. Women are the foundation of mother earth. We create life and we should be treated with lots of respect.
We birth presidents, senators, judges, lawyers, teachers, doctors, scientists, businessmen and the list goes on for miles. We are the pro creators of life. We are the foundation of mother earth. We birth life into this world and without women life will cease to exist.
Women should be celebrated all over the world not only on special occasion but everyday because no man knows how it feels to be pregnant for nine months and then give birth to an six to eight pound baby. Apart from giving birth then you have to be the one to raise the kids. Now you become the teacher, the doctor, the comforter, the consoler and everything for the child. From giving birth to the child it is never ending duties upon duties for the mother.
From birth our bodies go through change to the end of time. Women are the one to constantly experience monthly pains and this thing call the period. When you hit thirty years old then your body goes through another change. Then another ten years more changes. Our bodies are constantly changing on us. Oh, the pain and aches we go through onto death. Living as a woman is a very hard life.
When abuse occurs family and friends tend to draw their opinions. More often the judgement is to point fingers at the victim. It is always the victim which is the woman or wife that should have kept her house in order. It is always the victim that did something wrong.
In the home everyone is looking from the outside in and always points fingers at the women.
It is hurtful that we can condone and encourage such behavior.
Kathy Elliott is a powerful motivational speaker that focuses on changing lives. Creator of Women’s Motivational Services in New York which was founded in 2008 designed to help women find their purpose in life. She is author of several motivational books “Marriage Separation Divorce Regaining the Light”, “Success – Handbook for Teens/Young Adults, “Never, ever give up-13 Successful Principles to achieving your Dreams” ,“Domestic Violence Awareness-Real Life Stories and Be Awesome – Uncover Yourself.
She is a domestic violence awareness activist and speaker at domestic violence shelters monthly and hold a yearly fundraiser event. Kathy says “Life is a hell of a teacher and no matter what you are faced with you can never, ever give up.”